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Larry offers coaching for couples and individuals.
He tries to also teach balance in D/s - BDSM relationships.
It is important in D/s relationships where partners
give up control to their partner in scenes or in 24/7,
that there is balance, respect and honoring.
D/s is based on Mutual Respect,
Mutual Consent.
Submission is a gift offered to the Master/Dominate
Not something that is owed, but a precious beautiful gift.
D/s - BDSM does NOT give a license for Abuse.
Many people do though experience great release
from letting go and submitting to their partner
and for some can be very healing.
Also many people who enjoy giving a gift of submission
to their partner, are not weak people,
and are very strong and dominate in their daily work and lives ...
and need that release.
BDSM and D/s to me is not about extreme pain,
but of letting go and releasing,
allowing yourself to push new limits and boundaries..
As long as the basic rules are respected,
Safe, Sane and Consensual
Then fun can be experienced by all.
I suggest to all involved to use a "Safe word"
That no matter how silly it might be,
if you are uncomfortable with the scene or how you feel,
That you can stop..... no questions asked.
One should never enter into any BDSM scene
without first feeling safe with the partner,
and having discussed what your limits are
that you do not want to go beyond,
or things that you do not want to do.
And should be always respected by all involved in the scene.
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